Dream Lover
I believe that most of us have a mental blueprint for the type of person we’re at-tracted to. Examine your past relationships to see if you agree with me. Better yet, look at a handful of old married couples. Amazing how much alike they look, isn’t it?
But what do you do if you fall in love with someone outside your specifications? Just as you can view a glass as “half full,” you can view the positive aspects of your differences. Start by realizing that “different” isn’t always bad. It can open up many new experiences and joys to your life.
Get what you want
Most people do not realize how easy it is to fall in live. Let me rephrase this. Most guys do not realize how easy it is to capture the attention of the female they are attracted to. To all guys read carefully.
Most woman are not attracted by the looks of a man, but rather the charm and how a man carries him self. Is he funny, does he have a sense of humor, does he have confidents etc.. Simply put, guys can get any girl no matter how pretty she is. Things to remember: ( guys only )
1. If you’re not confident in your self, most likely this will be recognized by the female and your chances drop.
2. If your boring and have nothing to talk about or if you do not make the female laugh, your chances drop.
3. if you start opening your mouth and blabbing about your self and nothing but your self, your chances drop.
4. If you’re shy and scared as you approach the female, your chances drop.
More things to remember: ( guys only )
1. Remember to talk about your self less, a woman always likes to be given complements.
2. Be your self, do not pretend.
3. A woman knows from the first 5 min weather she likes you or not, so know your ground and be confident.
4. Do not come off as a big shot, she can read you like a book.
Shooting Yourselfin the Foot
A surprising number of couples I’ve interviewed are their own worst enemies. They often sabotage their relationship without even realizing it. For example, a man who fears commitment might use religion as an excuse to explain why he won’t propose. “I’d marry her if only she wasn’t [insert religion herel,” I’ve heard. When the woman offers to convert, the man flees in a panic. Likewise, a woman who is driving her man away because she drinks or smokes too much might use religious differences as the reason for the breakup. This time the dialogue goes: “He doesn’t like me because I’m [insert religion here].” No, honey, he doesn’t like you because you smoke like a chimney and drink like a fish.
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